This letter is just to let you know that I LOVE YOU and I feel blessed that you are part of my life. Life has been busy these days and with valentine day around the corner, I want to remind you that I love you with all my heart, I always have, I always will. \
As you know, i have got detective like curious mind, quite often I start thinking how, I would have survived this lifetime without you..precisely Agar tum na hote..to kya hota mera! so this letter…
It’s going to be 3 years of our wedding soon (12 years of our friendship/relationship) and life has been an awesome ride with you! Though I miss our earlier days where we used to be so carefree and in-so-much-love all the time doing nothing on weekends and watching movies on Netflix back to back, exploring new places together ah, I miss those days but changing Candy’s diapers together and singing on top of voice together so our little boy eats is also fun right?
Every day when I see you I still wonder, so we got married, is this for real? All thanks to social media (Orkut) for letting us meet. How easily we became friends and then best of friends, remember when we met first in 2009 (in person at Mcdonalds janpath, Delhi), You were like a kid then, looking unto me for advises in your personal and professional life. Never a thought occurred in my mind then that I am destined to marry this kid. I don’t know what made us fall for each other, for me it was your sincerity and caring nature (those looks ofcourse!) and i hope one day you will also tell me..
On verge of 30, with a boosting career, a major disease and tag of “Unmarried”, I had lost all hopes from the life. Your love for me was what made me pass over all the difficult times and I will always be grateful for this.
It’s not easy to love and then marry a girl who is 4 years older to you. Quite often, I wonder why you choose me.. what I have done to deserve you in this lifetime. You would have got any girl way better than me. With those looks, that dimpled smile, that hugeeee female following (Yeah, now I know them all and , am tired of hearing of stories of girls even your teachers having crush on you, and honestly it make me jealous and mad), But then, I thank my stars that you choose me.
You were best as a friend and boyfriend but you are Awesome as husband. Honestly, I never felt I am living with my husband, you always make me feel like I am living with my best friend, Who let me sleep till 10 a.m. on weekends, cooks food for me, massage my legs when they are paining, give me wonderful surprises, who never say “No” to me for anything (because I don’t like hear actually :P). So, all those sayings ki Shadi ke baad pyar gayab ho jata hai or life gets changed after marriage, I never felt so once..lucky me!. I still feel we are like a couple madly in love and who wants nothing but togetherness.
Ofcourse, we fight, but most of the time they are for stupid reasons and thanks for saying Sorry for every time we fight, even if mistake is mine (Yes, I do know, but you know na, I don’t like to be say Sorry and admit my mistake). So, thank you for being so supportive and loving each and every day of our life. Thank you for breaking the ice every time we fight and I turn my mute button on. Today through this letter I want to say you sorry for all those fights.
As they say be with someone who brings best in you. I am blessed to be with some one who has brought best in me. You see the girl in me who wants to fly in her career, who understand what my professional life means to me and your support has given wings to my dream needless to say my career. We have lived in different cities after wedding but you never asked me to quit my job so we can live together, thanks for this..it was not easy and with our love we sailed through the hard time time easily.
Thanks for smiles you bring on my face, for all the hugs & kisses that melt my heart, for all the love I see in your eyes! I hope our love will grow stronger over the years and that we will spend our entire life together, enjoying every bit of it. You are one awesome person with amazing sense of humor which keeps our life exciting and entertaining always, be the same please.. lifelong, I know can never match your sense of humor, but I am trying for sure!
And as you know I am very Filmy..One of favourite song for you..!
Tu Safar Mera, hai tuhi meri Manzil, tere bina guzara aey dil hai mushqil..:)
PS: In next birth we will be Girl friend- boy friend from childhood as we often discuss, Pakka Promise!
PPS: Hope you remember the list of gifts I enumerated you for valentines day.
PPPS: Please spend less time with that other person in your life, Yes, your Iphone please!
Love love and love always..!
Your Bossy Wife
I would like to thank Charu for introducing me in this chain. Do read her wonderful post on her blog http://www.themomsagas.com.
I would like to introduce my fellow blogger Archna. Do read her wonderful post on her blog http://www.theindianparentingblog.wordpress.com